How do you trust your ability to make sound decisions after what you thought was ‘happily ever after’ turned out to be an ugly divorce and custody battle?
Trusting my gut seems riskier now.
I had faith in my marriage. I trusted a man who had been my best friend for more than 10 years, whom I had a child with.
I couldn’t have been more wrong about him. He cheated, lied, assaulted and stole from me, and then left me to figure out how to care for our child and put all the pieces of my life together differently.
I was left questioning everything.
In the beginning, I wondered how I would make it through. Time was the answer, because I more than made it through my divorce – I thrived.
But the marks of those experiences are still there. How could they not be.
Where’s the sweet spot between remaining vigilant about not repeating mistakes and having the courage to make new ones?